Thanks so much for your advice. I have already started to do a few things. Ex. fixed some stuff around the house etc. I am hopeful he will come around. He really is a good person, just seems very confused right now.
Fighting for my life W=45 H=38 M=18yrs D=16 D=13 Bomb Dropped = 5/10/13 Still in house for I guess another two years according to him.