Don't come around here no more

[sandycay]

I'm only going to address a few of the financial issues of your situation. I read along on some poster's things from time to time.

1) You can pull a free credit report once a year. The only time pulling your report counts against you is a hard credit check....like from a furniture store, car place, an apartment complex checking your credit. You can do this today online. Do this today! I can not say this strongly enough to you.

2) Even if your husband is secondary on your credit card, AND you take him off .....he can still use the same card as the one he has, has the same number as yours. The only way to prevent this issue is you have to cancel the account and open another one, in your own name. Now, the credit card company you are with will do this for you and it won't effect your credit because they already have info on you. Just call them and tell them you lost your credit card and you want to open another account but you only need one card in Your name only.

HOpe that helps....your H is an a$$!