Wow, lth, that sounds great. I couldn't agree more that we so often make/made decisions without taking the consequences into account. That makes me think of the traditional vows: holy matirmony... – is not by any – to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly – but reverently, discreetly, advisedly and solemnly.

So many of us listen to that and then never give it another thought.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss