Don't forget to stick a link from here to your new thread 2old. remember what we say on here believe none of what she says and half of what she does (or is that the other way around?). Try to change the topic when your D starts talking about your W. It has come 3rd hand so she might not tell you the exact words that your W said, so this could be misinterpreted. Don't forget your W doesn't know what she wants at the moment and it will take her months before she does decide. My MIL said to me that my H is happier now than he's ever been for a long time. I believed her at first, but now I think that my H is kidding himself. He is still in a fog and will be for sometime. Your W is still in a fog and she doesn't know what she wants. Whatever information you get from her, take it with a pinch of salt. Tell your D that you don't want to talk about W at the mo as it still upsets you to hear things like that. I've been there before a few times where my H has said things to other people and they've repeated it back to me. I'm learning to ignore what they say as I don't believe none of it. Once you start to get a life of your own and work on you then it won't matter what your W does or says. I have notr rung my H up or sent him an email for over 2 weeks now (except when he was expecting one). I've still get some of his mail here. I told him about one letter but I haven't mentioned the other letter to him yet. Me and my son are my first priorities in my life now and I've not got room in my life for H as well. If he decides to come back home then the door will always be open, but for now I'm GAL without him in it.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
