Cbtdad, GALing is one of my 180s so I'm actually trying to kill two birds with one stone as it were. One of the first things I did was organize a team of ladies from work and we did the Canadian Cancer Society's Relay for Life. Now I'm looking into joining a local Habitat for Humanity build team - just waiting for the list of available dates.

My S13 and I have started going swimming at least once a week and walking after dinner at least once a week. It still leaves a lot of time at the house but I'm slowly getting there. I don't miss H when I'm home since he spent more time out than in over the past six months. It's more likely to be when I see him away from the house.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks