I have been in newcomers for a couple of weeks now, but my sitch has started to make a turn and the regulars over there are lost for advice since I am heading in a good direction.

You can read up on my sitch here: new and need support

Basically W dropped ILYBNILWY bomb early December. W has been living with a male friend since New Years Eve. Thing have been really up and down until about a week ago when I went fairly dark and she called me to talk and wanted to get together.

We have had 2 dates since then and she has returned to MC with me. I feel like she is starting to work on our marriage and we are making a step in the right direction. I told her this and she appreciated me seeing her working at it and agreed its going the right direction.

I would like some of you who were in my boat with a WAW and what worked once you started going the right direction. I really need to get her back here and I think it may happen soon, I just need help from everyone along the way to give advice and tips.

The dates and last calls are detailed in other thread and will help to explain where we are at.

Thanks, and glad to be here in piecing. I hope I can keep the Big MO!

God Bless You, Reuben Cautiously hopeful and keeping the Momentum