F, sounds great what you are doing with the house. I am looking forward to the same thing, based on buying the house off the W. I have so many plans, that weren't looked as being great when they were mentioned ages ago, now I won't have to get anyone's opinion. I can understand you not wanting to touch/hug the W. I suppose it is one of the ups and downs of the rollercoaster. Sometimes you just don't want to put the effort in. It is good to hear you are feeling good. Did you google and find a picture of a cow and sheep, drinking beer while watching the sun set?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
