The View from the Blanket VI

[bustingout]

Thank you subguy. I will try to indeed. How are you doing?

I was thinking that I found it strange when I spoke to H about boundaries, that as long as he continues to violate himself and the family and lie to me and the kids he will no longer come over in the mornings before school and we will set the times that he will see the kids so that they can rely on him. He was ok about it. No arguments. No attitude of entitlement or defensive or saying no. He said ok whatever you want. I found it strange that while he is defensive about every other aspect of his life style choices, and even how his choices affect the kids, he was not defensive about this. I dont understand that.