Don't come around here no more

[wishing, hoping]

If you make that shirt make sure you save one for me. I prefer black, not white.

S had a soccer tournament today. H called in the am and told me to make sure I brought a sweatshirt for D. I had planned on it anyway but I just let him think he was helping me out. I silently rolled my eyes.

H responded to my attorney's letter by saying he was (as they apparently say in the engineering business) "taking a shot across the bow" to get our attention. He said he was perfectly aware my "male friend" was completely innocent and he was "showing us how it felt to have a perfectly innocent situation turned into a sordid affair". Insert huge eyeroll here. That situation and this response deserves no more discussion from me. The whole thing is ridiculous and I don't believe for a minute H "knew the truth the entire time". Talk about backpedaling.

I am still angry about the ring situation. Not only because I'm emotional my husband gave another woman an engagement ring before our divorce was final, but because he has the absolute gall to spend money buying this woman jewelry and buy new TVS and stuff for his car. But yet we don't have the money to pay for S's soccer. I'm supposed to borrow money from my mom to pay for it. I am stranded on the side of the Toll Road with our two children in the car in the dead of winter with a flat tire and he tells me to borrow money from my mom to fix my car.

And now OW is receiving mail at this address? "The future mrs. H"?

H had his tail between his legs today. He kept looking at me. Trying to get me to engage in conversation. I kept it civil. Only conversations about the kids. Few words were spoken. I feel like a hypocrite being nice to him. I really do.

He did end up staying at the house tonight. I am guessing since S has a Game at 10:00 tomorrow he didn't feel like driving up to OW's and back so early. I'm kind of surprised by that. But then again I don't care. I would rather he be gone, but it's not "his day" so he's keeping his distance. I'm hoping he will be gone tomorrow after the game. A little of H goes a long way.

You're right AJ. These discoveries may be painful at first, but really works in breaking the connection.

WH