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[doubledown]

Thanks SailingAlone.

That makes good sense. I will continue to DB and 180, GAL. It's tough, but I understand the necessity.

Confronting her will be a challenge. Setting boundaries and consequences are a line in the sand and I'll have to be ready for her response which may not be what I want. Another problem is that we're expecting a significant settlement from a car accident that she was in and that will happen in about 6 months. Based on her emails and texts to OM, it looks like she is waiting for that to make her move.

I need a new car, ands she said in 6 months when we get the settlement, you can get a car. So, do I risk that issue by jumping the gun? Oh man...this is tough!