Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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Yes I think he has to be the one to admit and get help on his own. I suggested it and be blatantly said "no". I know his pride maybe getting in the way as well.

I looked up depression and he seems to hit the nail on be head,

-under eating...check
-over excersizing...check
-sad days that last over two weeks...check
-not sleeping....check
-angry and moody...check
-irritable....check

It also states depression can ruin a marriage because the depressed who don't get help blame their spouse for their problems.

Yes Trent relating to the last time he left. Like he definitely has ups and downs throughout the years cause he is an emotional person but not this bad. I think his extremely stressful job doesn't helps matters...

A few weeks before this all happened he had a bad day. His best friend came down to visit and he couldn't even get out of bed. He said he didn't know why but was just so grumpy for some reason. And also a few days before this happened he had a bad day and re-assured me his grumpiness had nothing to do with me he was just upset about a case he was working on...