It isn't easy - I figured that much out. I've come close to giving up on my H more than once, especially over the last week or so, but each time so far I've read something on this forum that's given me new hope and kept me from giving up the fight.
Still working on the GAL part - I've never been much of a socializer or a joiner, preferring quieter activities on the homefront but I'm trying to force myself to get out and do something so that I'm not sitting in the house we used to share thinking about the better times.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks