They often get upset like that - they want to say it's too little, too late. And looking back, no matter how murky their efforts at communicating, they see it as clear and direct. Hang in there, and be consistant.
Yes, yes and yes! He has said it's too little too late and he has insisted that I ignored his complaints until he left me. Well, no. He just had a childish way of communicating them. If I had understood I would have acted. And in his nice moments, he says he wasn't mature enough to communicate. But then he gets grumpy over something and it's all my fault again.
