wife hardends heart-2

[planet]

I gave away part ownership of our house to W as per D agreement with nothing in return. It's hers now.
In my country, only one parent is awarded full custody and usually it's the mother. Spoken to 2 different solicitors.

I think she couldn't comfort D3 successfully that made her upset. I waited until she absolutely couldn't handle D3 before taking over. W cried thereafter and went to the bathroom. I went in to check on her because she's fist hitting the wall in the middle of the night. I tried to comfort her and she did push me away. She mentioned something about 'everybody just wants me to die'. That's frustration talk. D3 cried again and I went back to calm her. Check on W moments later, she was sitting facing a mirror and later had a long bath. Weird me out. Never seen her like this.

Comforting others is one of the 180s I'm looking to build on.

She has disrespected my boundaries. I don't even know what consequences she will have to face from me. I have no leverage.