Hi Hurt, glad I was able to give you some advice I hope it goes well for you One thing I'd say that if she does want a R, then you need to take it slowly this time. That's what I intend to do if I ever get a chance at R I feel that both of us need to address the affairs and talk to an MC about our sitches. It's the only way I feel that we can really trust our spouses again. You mentioned about turning it round quickly, but you need to take things slowly. You'll have to have a lot of patience and lots of little babysteps in order for this to work. Reread Sandi's rules, sorry I'm repeating myself now but I feel it's important to do that go out and GAL. Find a hobby that you can engage in or some other activity that doesn't involve your spouse. This will make you feel better You can have a little bit of hope, I always keep hold of a bit of hope In the long run you may get hurt again but you'll come out of this a lot stronger if you follow the system on here. Keep posting regularly, we're here to help and encourage you You will get some tough talk on here as well, but take what you want and ditch the rest Good luck
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I hope it goes well for you 