Btw F, I hate these auto spellers. I had typed the word confusion in that post, but I think it was changed by my IPad to something else. Anyway.....
I would like to go back to something hotwheels said when we were talking about being too nice to the WAW. He brought up about being too eager to please. I believe a man can be nice and still hold his head high b/c he has not compromised his boundaries. However, once you get over into that area of being too eager to please your WAW, then you are in danger of her seeing you as a doormat. You guys cannot imagine what a turn-off it is for a WAW to see her H jumping through hoops of fire just to please her. It usually draws her disrespect and disgust to the point she can hardly be civil to him.
That is why I am always talking about having her respect for you as a man, first, is more importantant than anything else. Being her doormat only increases her disrespect for you. And, btw, a woman can get angry at her H and still respect him as a man. If the anger is not over issues of you not being a man. Does that make sense?
If she respects you, then there is a lot of hope of having her to feel in love with you again. But if she doesn't respect how you are as a "man", she won't be able to have those in love feelings.
So, for whoever is reading this, you need to focus on how you are showing your manliness around her and in your daily life, rather than ways of pleasing her while she is a WAW.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
