BD, the fundamentals never really change do they? If you're happy with where you are, continue to be so. Enjoy time with her without expectation.

If you can't do that and it's hurtful for you, step back.

You get to call the dance.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss