In a way, you are kind of like it was when you were first dating (or wanting to date) each other. You wanted her to see you as being interesting and a bit popular. You did not give her an account of your daily activities. If you had, she would have lost interest and ran away. Each person (of the couple), has to allow some time of wooing or drawing in the other one. It is, in fact, like a dance or game. The attraction builds up to the point of wanting to be together more.......and learning more about each other........and more details about their daily lives. But you have to pace it, or you loose the other person. Once the couple's relationship is better grounded, the more intimate they become about their daily activities and their thoughts/emotions.
In regards to the time I spend just me and W. In this time do we stay away from any issues that might crop up? No doubt they need to be addressed, but when?
I don't doubt we will be more successful in the dance/game if issues are kept out of it so when do we tackle them? Set time aside not related to the dating time or just make a note and leave it until later or at MC?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
