Emotional Connection and Attraction

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Thanks LTH,

Are you suggesting I should detach?

Thats the tough part for me. She's obviously missing something from this marriage. I' not sure I can find out what that is by detaching.

I mentioned it above, but the few times W and I have had glimpses of passion and intimacy is after we have a major R talk. There has to be something to be said about that. I'm not sure if W has picked up on that trend.

I agree that keeping the status quo and acting that all is well is not a good idea. I do need to try something different. But I'm not sure I'm going to regain any intimacy or passion by detaching.

Me becoming the WAS may be a motivator for her to look inward, but I'm not there yet. Sometimes I wish I was.