Sounds like you are doing okay and I am happy to hear that. I agree with Sandi2, your W has no reason not to be nice to you because you have made this very easy for her.
It does seem that your W is going to need to miss you and understand that things are different now if anything is going to change. I am glad you aren't going to accept every invitation - even though it is good for the girls, if she is cake eating she has no reason to want to come home. It is important for the children that you have the R you do, that you keep in touch and know what is going on. It is going to be important for your M that she miss you and feels the impact that things are different. She needs time to feel this and reflect on it. At some point it seems you should be pulling back more than you have. Sandi2?
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
