ya know- i even have (maybe)one or two closets that are relatively tidy- but you wound'nt want to live in them.
what the heck is up with it all??/ this is the "thing" - does it really matter and is IT really THE problem.
i'm thinking if he managed to be perfectly with messyole me for alllllllllllllllllllllllllthose years - at least 30 - RITE UP TIL he began f'ing around and reconnecting with old ow frm his workin early early days-]
HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO TAKE IT SERIOUSLY??? seriously! no kiddng- all of a sudden mess is the reason to toss out a perfectly good mate- 38 years and never look back. (well, except he didn't toss me out (why? idk !!
he didn't toss me out- actually lied and lied to keep me hanging around and here - in his life-
but what??? back to you bob- mess.
i just can't , in my heart, buy it as THE REASON>
HIS INSANITY- WHICH IS alot more seeable- blatant - wacky adn all fo the above- THAT i believe.
my mess!! he certainly never said good boy girl , when i cleaned up and tried and tried and tried some more- and believe me - a person can notice when the other guy is kuiling themself trying - someting new & better...
it's such Crappola - isn't it??/ i'm neater- and glad of it. i'm even really wishing i could get totally tidy in life- make myself less stressed by alot too.
howefver- the reason for alllll this???
i don't thnk so- he's nuts.
glad to meet ya -
xxoo my closets may always look like hell- but who is inviting him in to look? he checks the real trouble places just to make sure he's still miserable and i'm still inadequate-
you'd think he might look for the goodn ews for a change - no???
after all- we find what we're searching for , don't we? happiness, misery?
