Bea, I have heard many times in the real world that the older they are when they enter into mlc, the more pathetic they are. It's true when you think about it...look at how they behave, dress and try to be younger people again. They become the jokes of the town and people begin to talk about them and laugh about how they are behaving. It is far worse for those that are "older" than the younger ones in the 40's and 50's.
Bea, he's never taken the time to truly look within. He's always had an ow hanging around him. If he had about 6-12 months of being on his on w/o the companionship of a woman, he might finally look within.
I'm truly sorry he's not learned anything and continues to p@ss people off.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.