Your xH hasn't heard from his kids for awhile, but "no news is good news"? I'm so glad to learn they make rose cololred glasses in bifocals, Bea!

For me, one of the most pathetic things was my 60 year H's 58 year old OW threatening that if he does not hurry up and divorce me, she is going to find herself a new boyfriend. Boyfriend. Really?

Sorry Bea. I agree with Snodderly - ignore him. And maybe his birthday too smile

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17