His complaints were that I didn't dress up enough and wasn't social enough. I have totally 180ed both of those since the moment I heard them. And he is P!ssed about it. He says oh, great. You're addressing everything now that I've left you and it's over. I had to leave you to get you to listen.
And of course I've told him if it bothers him that much, it doesn't have to be over. He's making that choice, I'm certainly not and he KNOWS that. Maybe not a DB answer but I've been hearing this for months, sometimes I break the rules.
Only it isn't true that I ignored him. He never properly communicated these things. And he admits that in one breath, then makes a comment about him having to leave me to get me to listen in the next. He's so confusing.
Ugh. Just venting. I have ignored many comments about my social calendar filling up. But he was really grumpy about it today when he brought the kids home.
