Hey complicated! It sounds like you are doing really well, despite the movement towards D. I agree. Sometimes you have to shake it up a bit. I haven't always been the best at DB. I've gone against the grain. In the end, you're in charge. You know best. I have to listen to my heart and also listen to him. There isn't a one size fits all or any book that is just about you and your H. (BTW if I'm wrong and you find one, let me know.) Three years is a long time. You know what's best and when you're done. Sounds like you have a really good handle on things.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17
