PS- I get what you are saying about looking for someone to "ease my D pain" but Sven came into my life at the beginning of the summer before "D" was even mentioned. Would a R distract me from perseverating over the details of my D- yeah, it would?
AS- I did tell H on anniv date that I was actually having a good day and until he called I was doing great. I actually think some of his depression is due to the fact that I am moving on w/o him...GALing my tushy off! And, Sven's name popping up on my cell while H looked over my shoulder was a good reality check for him, I think!
SP- very interesting we are at similar places! It is exciting to think about getting positive attention from someone of the opposite sex! And, I'm right there with you about the "worry factor" b/c I tend to fall hard and fast into relationships (at least in the past I did).
Tomorrow is my birthday...celebrating on vaca with my boys! Going for a bike ride in morning (I can't get enough now), then boating and soaking in the sun all day. Campfire night w family and friends. Can't think of a better birthday than that!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
And, Sven's name popping up on my cell while H looked over my shoulder was a good reality check for him, I think!