PS,
Sounds like you made some positive progress regarding house situation--a list and some due dates is a good idea.

And, good for you for knowing and establishing boundaries regarding your W and OM. You do NOT deserve to be put through the same pain over by living w your W again while OM is in the picture.

Boston again, yeah.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.