Oh and just to note. This summer, I went away for a week and left the kids with my mom. H went and stayed with her and the kids (he hadnt spoken to my mom in a year...hadnt seen her in two). Anyway, my parents spoke to him while I was away. He apologised to my dad for previously lying to him about the affair, and told my dad that OW is a slut that sleeps with other men and means to nothing to him!!! My dad said how could you be with someone like and you describe her like that and he said because she means nothing to me. My dad said then you need to end this affair whatever happens to your M. H said she is the one always calling him....!
He also told my parents and his sister that he has no intention of marrying her.
Of course is actions speak of none of this. Always on the phone, flying off to meet her. And he told his nephew he 'loves her'.
I was so baffled when this all happened...now i know that he is just full of sh!t right now and I believe none of what he says whether its positive or negative about the OW. Or anything else for that matter.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
