Thanks Sandi for your reply. Similar to F, we just needed to clarify your statement in more depth, thank you for that. It was more a question of whether we needed to stop being so nice or eager to please. I agree that I don't think there is anything or anyone that is too nice if not being a doormat. F, yes I did get the answer I was after. Thanks also about the allowing to hijack, just giving you courtesy. If anything I had a lovely talk to a parent of some kids from my school today. Such a positive lady, she gave such a powerful message about needing to focus 100% on me and gave ways to do it. Just one of those moments that was needed. Will write on my own page later. Hope all is well F.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
