He has been helping multiple single guy friends with their women and dating issues, which is really funny to me. I think he really likes to think he is an expert at this.
I recall how my MLCr was at the time. This is years ago so it's a little fuzzy, but as I remember it, she wanted to fix everyone she found. Fix the guy who's wife was a complete train-wreck and decided she was gay instead of wanting to be married. Fix the guy who wanted to cheat on his wife. Fix the girl who was an absolute train-wreck. The list goes on. I remember thinking that it seemed normal to me in the sense that she was looking to fix everyone's problem's BUT hers. To me, that seemed a way to avoid facing her own issues, yet still deal with them. Just through other people and their lives.
Kind of odd, but certainly not uncommon for many people to deal with it that way. "I have this friend who..." Or, "physician, first heal thyself."
He seems to act like he is having withdrawls. Interesting.
You sound like you're in a good place and glad you are. I know it's not easy, but you have a good view of things and I'm very glad to hear your baby and kids are doing well. That's very important
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
