Don't come around here no more

[wishing, hoping]

So I have told you how H seems too self assured and too full of himself? And how he said to me at one point that I was going to be "exposed"? I think I know what he was talking about.

About 3:00 today my attorney's office sends me a fax H sent them. It was marked from H as an urgent matter.

H was questioning my judgement in bringing the kids around this "male friend" of mine. At first I was like WTF? Male friend? I read on to discover H was grilling the kids about me taking D to a restaurant to meet this male friend and that S didn't want to meet him. H went on to say D told him this guy had dirty fingernails, a gruff voice and was loud and overbearing and scared her. Then it hit me.

On June 8, my DivorceCare group met for a quick dinner at this restaurant. I brought D with me because I had the kids that night. I told S I was meeting my friends from DivorceCare and asked if he wanted to go and get some ice cream? He said no, he wanted to stay with the dog. I said no problem. D cane with me and was shy at first, but then warmed up to them. The group consists of 6 women and one man. Who happens to be 20 years older than me. And yes, he has dirty nails. He is an auto mechanic.

Then H takes it one step further. I had reserved that tepee a few weeks ago and it fell through at the last moment. My good friend and co-worker let me use her cabin for the evening. H accused me of taking the kids to this cabin which he assumed was owned by this "male friend". Hence H was curious why I was allowing the kids to be exposed to another man while he couldn't take the kids around OW?

My attorney couldn't stop laughing the whole time I was on the phone with him. I was waiting with baited breath to read the attorney's response.

Well H thought he had one over on me. Unfortunately for him, I don't believe in dating other people while I am still married.

WH