Thanks for clarifying! You are totally right – it took me some time to get to this point, but I do believe that's were I am now! At first in sit I was a doormat but I truly believe this was only for a month or so! By the way – some of this development was only due to you hitting me hard several times at first so once again, thanks!
Originally Posted By: Sandi
Sometimes I feel like you strain at a nat and swallow a camel, but I guess it's the crises that make you that way
Yes we do and yes it is! I believe we all go through this phase and in fact we have to! The question is for how long we dwell in this phase. When I read in here it seems like somebody never leaves this phase while others go through it rather quickly.
When we start focusing on ourselves we conscious or unconscious develop and realize our values and boundaries and that’s when we put our foot down and gain respect - Not just from W!
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
