You are right. It's getting hard to take. And if it continues I'm just gonna have to tell him that in still his wife through all this and I deserve to be treated like it. I am doing everything in my power to work on this marriage and save it and I need his help. I can't fix this all on my own.

My question is nex time he is set to go out how do I healthily and in a way that isn't nagging, or motherly ask him to be home earlier. Or tell him it bothers me? How do i do that in a good safe way?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14