Hey Newman, nice to hear from you. Yes I think we could be missing each other's LL. I know H is not speaking mine. However, he speaks to me in the LL that I think means something to him .... i.e., acts of service...like making me coffee in the morning, making my lunch, and things like that.
I'm trying to compliment him more (he's either vain or insecure?!?) and make his favourite dinner..but I could do more also.
I keep telling myself I have the advantage of learning and teaching myself how to be a better person and better at relationships, H hasn't had that. Do I feel a bit cheated, I do at times, but also try to look at the positives of our R. It gets frustrating at times, but I generally can push the negatives away and keep going.
Hope you're doing well. I have been busy and haven't been posting much, but I do try to keep up with everyone's sitch. Thanks again Newman.
