Update: H sent me text this morning “Send me back a portable file so I can do invoices. Thanks”. WTF, this sounds rude. He always used “would you”, “could you”, “please” words in all his communications, with me as well, even when we were in a good R. He also stopped using my name again. What happened with the “becoming best friends” intentions? I hope he didn’t decide that I was trying to make some kind of advances and tried to push me back. I can’t even think what I did to make him think like that. Maybe it not this, but something else. Maybe he is depressed and angry. IDK. I didn’t reply. I went for a walk with the dog and received another text asking me look up his SIL B-day in the address book. This time he said “please”. I replied that I would do it as soon as I am home. He replied with “Thanks”.

I came home and sent him the info. No reply.

Is this some kind of touch and go? A couple of weeks ago he was very polite and pleasant in his texts. And now, he sounds annoyed and rude. Is it just my impression? I kind of decided to take his lead and reply in the same manner, not too rude though, but kind of dry and short. If he starts being polite again, I will follow.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state