Thanks for your support, Linda. I guess the joke didn’t go well. The town’s name I used is “The Bottom of the Lake”. IDK, maybe he interpreted it as sarcasm? Maybe he is having very low moods these days. I think his work is not going too good. Maybe I just hit the nerve with this joke?

He was not at work on Thursday. And I know in the past he would be in the bar by 6 pm meeting with his drinking buddies and gals.

This what his plan was before, to live the house for me and he would have the vacation home. But, he behaves (at least in the past) like he doesn’t mind me being there (when he is not, of course) and also bring my family and friends. I think now he is thinking how he is going to afford that place, and it might be contributing to his moods.

We never lived apart for more than 3 weeks. It was when he was working away from home, but he always came home for the weekend after every 2 or 3 weeks.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state