Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part IV)

[Fartiltre]

She does seem grateful for the help even though she hasn't really asked for any!

In my country we have a saying – it is hard to translate but goes something like:
True friends come only invited when things are normal but in troubled times they look by you uninvited

You are a good man AS! The things you are doing for your W is truly and always good! She is in troubled waters and you stick by her! You would properly still like to R although you express doubt and feel good but as I read you these actions are done out of good and without expectations.
I really like reading about this and I believe anybody and everybody would like a person like this around them – and that goes for your W as well!

All the best!

F