Since all you seem to get is the peeking out of the tunnel and it sounds like you want more than that.
I would tell him what you think. What more could he do to you?
You are already divorced.
As far as trusting him, I think that no matter who you are with you will have those issues. He would need to prove it to you. I think that you cant trust them unless they prove otherwise and one of my friends who's husband had an MLC and she has been reconciled for 5 years, she still does not trust her husband. I dont think she ever will completely trust her husband and he is totally recovered from MLC and their marriage is great.
I think you should do what YOU want, which from the sound of things is what you have been doing.
