yup TDF, dim as possible with her, just focus on YOU and the KIDS.
Think of it like you are living with a roommate with issues, and don't let the roommate affect your work or PMA, and don't get into your roommate's shizz. Well, that's what I tried to do pretty much.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm