LC,

I have the same problems when i talk to my friends about my sitch. They offer advice about moving on and ask why we would want to go back to a WAW as badly as we do. For me anyway, it all boils down to the fact that we still love our wives and to hear the negativity is kind of like someone insulting our decisions and choices up to this point.

Fact of the matter is, we will continue to fight and try and reconcile until it is time to move on completely. We don't know when that time will come, or what the future holds, but for now, it almost helps us get through the day with that little bit of hope to hold onto.

Take care.


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13