AS, you always have such a good handle on the reality of things!
GTO, I am not sure what to say, because I am in pretty much the exact same spot as you are. It's funny how lineal our sitches have progressed. Well then again, maybe it's not funny :-/
Like you, I am really excited about the possibility of someone being interested in me. Last night, a friend of a friend sent me a text.....perhaps a "setup"? It almost feels like I have opportunities for dates coming out of my ears, all of a sudden! That does a major boost to ones ego and self esteem! regardless of how I proceed, because I really don't know if I am ready to accept any romantic relationship at this time, it is very uplifting to communicate and interact with someone of the opposite sex. Just be careful with yourself, GTO. I worry about us both.