In my opinion, you can love someone and leave them. It is not a loving act to allow someone to abuse you and treat you poorly. Setting a healthy boundary, taking good care of yourself, and ending the relationship if necessary ... to me is an act of love for both of you.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.