BC, that all was actually pretty amazing and inspiring to me. Thank you for sharing the "transcript." One thing that stood out to me was:

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I will fight to the death for this family, but my love isn't unconditional. If you do what you did (EA) again, I'm gone. If you refuse to work on this M long term or treat me poorly etc, I'm gone.


Way to set a boundary. I'm still working on this and haven't been able to figure out exactly what my boundaries are. At this point, I'm willing to put up with quite a lot. This makes me wonder if I'm too much of a doormat... Thanks again for sharing. You handled everything really well IMHO.

ETC


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