The talk was good. It sounds like your W still doesn't get it that the "in love" or "passionate" feelings don't come automatically back unless you actually DO SOMETHING about it. Your W is just standing there waiting for the feelings to come back. They won't unless she actually initiates change.
The fact that she said that she didn't feel like she would miss you is a big sign. Maybe it's time to do something different. Have you done anything to incite any passion in her?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.