What exactly are your boundaries? Have you told him what they are?
It's starting to look like he's pushing your buttons, getting you so scared he's going to leave that he can walk all over you.
He's your husband and he is just as accountable to you as you are to him. Staying out all night, coming home angry AT YOU, and not telling you why? That's BS. You can't live like that.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
