Wife dropped the bomb on me two months ago

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BKS,

Keep up on your PMA not only around your W, but around everyone as this will help you start feeling better over time. I know from my sitch, the time between when D is actually filed and the time before it's final is tough. You will feel like it's now or never as far as trying to save your M and in the end, it seems to just put more pressure on the WAW.

Your timeline reads alot like mine, so believe me when i tell you this, i know how you are feeling and what type of emotions you are feeling.

The thing that has helped me the most to get through the rough times by far are my kids. Be strong for them, they will look to you for answers and yet, they have a strange way of letting you know that things will be ok without even saying it. They don't understand what is happening and are probably scared and confused as well but when you are together, show them you can be there for them. They will also find new ways to put a smile on your face as well.

I will keep checking in on you and offering as much support as i can.

Have a good weekend.