That he knows it was a hard day for me (but actually it wasn't).
I hope you told him that, because he needs to know you're not sitting around the house all day moping and weeping that he's not there. A good response would have been something like "Actually I didn't even really think about it that much, I had a lot to do today and it was a great day!" Show off your GAL!
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He has talked to boys a couple of days and asked to talk to me twice. Each time he seems very down. When I asked him why? he said he was depressed about being alone so much and no family around and nothing to do while we are gone (too bad R w OW is not progressing, huh?!). (I think they are waiting for her D to be final...not sure, really.)
It sounds to me like he's fishing around to do a temp check on you. To see if he still has you on the hook. Again, flaunt your GAL, make it clear to him that you are continuing your life whether with or without him.
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Again, it means me feel better to know that his life isn't as happy as he hoped it would be without me in it...
It rarely is, that's what helps the WAS to come out of the fog. Reality never aligns with the fantasy they had pictured in their head before ripping our lives apart.
