round and around we go

[willbwell]

H is still so adamant about d. He keeps saying he want to just move forward. He doesn't want to delay the "inevitable"

It doesn't seem to matter to him that this will be a busy school year for me. h travels with his job at least 2 weeks of the month.
He doesn't do the kids stuff. Sorry, need to vent a little...I do the shopping, the laundry, the cleaning, the HW, the scheduling of appointments, the chauffeuring, But, he says he wants to maintain a relationship with them? Says he'll help when he can. He wants to write a check. I said kids want his time and attention. He makes work his priority.

We discussed finances yesterday(via email, not with attorneys)Its all so exhausting to me!

S19 bday tomorrow. h will be here to celebrate. just doing burgers on the grill.I will be upbeat and positive.