Zoo - I understand and see your point but she has been through all this before with him. They are divorced now. In my opinion, if he is truly serious, really, really loves her wants her back with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE then he MUST stop the Match.com, no more dating, no more numbers being handed out. Period. End of Story. Heck if I was her I certainly would definitely set boundaries - let him know up front where I come from and if he loves me enough to woo me for the rest of my life then start showing me.
I am divorced as well. I am not bitter by any means (although I suppose I come across this way) but my heart has been stomped on too hard to put my vulnerability back out on the line like that and take that kind of risk.
I hope you aren't mad at me ZOO - I wasn't trying to attack you by any means - heck that is what this board is about - sharing opinions and throwing them out there. There is no right or wrong answer - just what fits your life best.
