I have a hard time figuring out how to handle myself but I have followed your advice and I am not reaching out but when she calls I am kind and very nice.
F, at this stage of the sitch, that is about all you can do. Stay kind and very nice, it shows how strong we are. Beats being the opposite nasty and angry all the time, don't want to go back that way again.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
